Tuesday, December 17, 2019

Have You Seen Luis Velez? by Catherine Ryan Hyde // BOOK REVIEW

“Living long is a gift denied to many, and so it comes with a responsibility to make the most of it. At very least to appreciate it. People gripe about growing older—their aches and pains, how much harder everything is—as if they had forgotten that the alternative is dying young.”
“We just made the mistake of putting it off. We thought we would lose nothing by putting it off. We thought we had plenty of time. I guess that was our key mistake, right? We thought there would always be more time. Why do we do that? I mean, not just Luis and me. Everybody. Why does everybody do that? Think we'll have more time?”
Book: Have You Seen Luis Velez?
Author: Catherine Ryan Hyde
Genre: Fiction, Contemporary
Synopsis: Raymond Jaffe feels like he doesn't belong. Not with his mother's new family. Not as a weekend guest with his father and his father's wife. Not at school, where he's an outcast. After his best friend moves away, Raymond has only two real connections: to the feral cat he's tamed and to a blind ninety-two-year-old woman in his building who's introduced herself with a curious question: Have you seen Luis Velez?

Mildred Gutermann, a German Jew who narrowly escaped the Holocaust, has been alone since her caretaker disappeared. She turns to Raymond for help, and as he tries to track Luis down, a deep and unexpected friendship blossoms between the two.

Despondent at the loss of Luis, Mildred isolates herself further from a neighborhood devolving into bigotry and fear. Determined not to let her give up, Raymond helps her see that for every terrible act the world delivers, there is a mirror image of deep kindness, and Mildred helps Raymond see that there's hope if you have someone to hold on to.

What I think about it...

This book is both heartbreaking and heartwarming for me.

Heartbreaking because, even though I know its fiction, I know there really are children / kids who feel out of place inside their own home – that one place where they should feel they are loved and wanted. It is so saddening to see that the person who’s most suffering in the separation of a husband and a wife is their child. I felt so sad for Raymond for being in that situation. I was kinda happy, though, that at least his Dad cares for him but I also don’t think that he has some balls to stand up for his own son.

But it is so heartwarming for me because Raymond found his family in Mrs. G and in other Luis Velezes. It’s just so ironic that sometimes people who are not related to you are the ones who make you feel like you’re family. I’m tearing up just by recalling how wonderful this book is.

The Ending

Wow. I thought I was not really gonna enjoy what’s gonna happen in the end but you know, Catherine Ryan Hyde didn’t really promised anything in the end and that made it more realistic. It is so realistic that it may be happening to someone right now. It’s just so amazing and it’s really not the kind of ending I was hoping but it’s as good as it gets. There are so many things that’s gonna happen in the future and who knows what’s in there until we get there, right? We just have to be positive and hope for the best.

My Verdict

Amazing. Must-read. Most recommended.

There are so many great takeaways here that I kept highlighting here and there. Guys, if you’re looking for a book that will give you the feels… This. Is. It.

It taught me that we can’t really change the world, alone, especially for the people we care about for them to like it better or for them to not feel any more pain/hardships. But what we can do is to let them go through whatever it is they have to go through and just be there for them.
“The world is terrible and wonderful at the same time. One doesn’t negate the other, but the wonderful keeps us in the game. It keeps us moving forward.” 
MY RATING
★★★

The Four Agreements by Miguel Ruiz // BOOK REVIEW

“If someone is not treating you with love and respect, it is a gift if they walk away from you. If that person doesn't walk away, you will surely endure many years of suffering with him or her. Walking away may hurt for a while, but your heart will eventually heal. Then you can choose what you really want. You will find that you don't need to trust others as much as you need to trust yourself to make the right choices.”
Book: The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom
Author: Miguel Ruiz
Genre: Self Help, Non-fiction, Spirituality, Philosophy
Synopsis: In The Four Agreements, don Miguel Ruiz reveals the source of self-limiting beliefs that rob us of joy and create needless suffering. Based on ancient Toltec wisdom, the Four Agreements offer a powerful code of conduct that can rapidly transform our lives to a new experience of freedom, true happiness, and love. The Four Agreements are: Be Impeccable With Your Word, Don't Take Anything Personally, Don't Make Assumptions, Always Do Your Best.

What I think about it...

This book has given me great insights that I will definitely treasure. I finished reading it and I will read it again and again until it’s imprinted in my mind. There are so many takeaways from this book and I’ve read serious accusations against the author but personally, I can’t comment/respond to what Miguel Ruiz did or did not do. The teachings I’ve found in this book are so powerful and inspiring. This book talks about the four agreements that we need to adopt to transform our lives:

Be impeccable with your word
Don’t take anything personally
Don’t make assumptions
Always do your best

This is a must-read book for everyone. And if you’ve read this already, what agreement coincides with you the most?

MY RATING

Wednesday, December 4, 2019

Love & Luck by Jenna Evans Welch (Love & Gelato #2) // BOOK REVIEW

“Do you know what I love most about humans, pet? It’s our utter dogged stupidity. When it comes to love we never learn. Ever. Even when we know the risks. Even when it makes much more sense to relocate to individualized climate-controlled caves, where our hearts have at least a fighting chance at remaining intact. We know the risks of opening our hearts up. And yet we keep doing it anyway. We keep falling in love and having babies and buying shoes that look incredible but feel like death. We keep adopting puppies and making friends and buying white sofas that we know we’re going to drop a slice of pizza facedown on. We just keep doing it. Is it ignorance? Amnesia? Or is it something else? Something braver?”
Book: Love & Luck (Love & Gelato #2)
Author: Jenna Evans Welch
Genre: Contemporary, Young Adult
Synopsis: Addie is visiting Ireland for her aunt’s over-the-top destination wedding, and hoping she can stop thinking about the one horrible thing she did that left her miserable and heartbroken—and threatens her future. But her brother, Ian, isn’t about to let her forget, and his constant needling leads to arguments and even a fistfight between the two once inseparable siblings. Miserable, Addie can’t wait to visit her friend in Italy and leave her brother—and her problems—behind.

So when Addie discovers an unusual guidebook, Ireland for the Heartbroken, hidden in the dusty shelves of the hotel library, she’s able to finally escape her anxious mind and Ian’s criticism.

And then their travel plans change. Suddenly Addie finds herself on a whirlwind tour of the Emerald Isle, trapped in the world’s smallest vehicle with Ian and his admittedly cute, Irish-accented friend Rowan. As the trio journeys over breathtaking green hills, past countless castles, and through a number of fairy-tale forests, Addie hopes her guidebook will heal not only her broken heart, but also her shattered relationship with her brother.

That is if they don’t get completely lost along the way.

What I think about it...

The writing / story

This book is written in Addie's point of view and at the end of each chapters there are excerpts from Ireland for the Heartbroken: An Unconventional Guide to the Emerald Isle, third edition that Addie is reading. And I enjoyed reading it more than I did with reading Addie's story. I think the whole book is written nicely (but not nice enough to hold my attention). It was a lighthearted story and a quick read.

The Characters

Oh God I admire Addie's brothers! They are so hilarious that I always look forward to their parts in Addie's stories. There was a cameo of Lina and Ren as well, in the end. On the other hand, I don't know what to feel about Rowan. He was just like a background character although he was always there. He didn't give me the feels Ren gave me during the first book. He was there but was kinda not there. 

And Addie, oh Addie... is very annoying and childish and a pushover. I was really annoyed with her that I think if I have a younger sister like her, that complains every single time, I will definitely slap her to sanity.

Oops, I think I'm being too violent. But Addie is annoying. Like there was a part where she, her three brothers and her mom was inside the car and they were talking about the fight Addie and Ian had during their Aunt's wedding, she just won't shut up. It felt like I was inside the car with them.

Why it didn't work for me...

I thought I'm gonna like it, at least, because I lurve Love & Gelato but this was utterly disappointing. I just kept skipping everything. I did not enjoy this story at all. And Addie is just so stupid. 
Like why she didn't think of the consequences of her actions?
Her brother warned her and yet she continued whatever it is she's doing.
And then she messed up.
Serves her right for being so hard headed!
She wanna be more than just the little sister of her three superstar-athlete brothers but if that is her way to be more than just the little sister, she really is bound to get doomed. Also there was a part where Miriam asked her to go on the stage and shout, "I am the hero of my own story," and I thought it was overboard, shallow and absurd. 
I don't find the significance of this scene in the whole story just like how I don't get the point of the whole story.

My Verdict

I don't like this at all. And this has a lot of positive comments on Goodreads but I just can't seem to like it.
I don't like it at all.
Addie ruined this for me.
And the only thing that gave me emotions in this book are her brothers and Lina. Her brothers made me laugh and Lina made me cry. And Addie, well, she irritates me. So, no, this book is...


But wait, just to be fair (after all I've said above, I wanna be fair LOL), I started reading this at the same time I started reading Everlost but Love & Luck didn't catch my attention as much as Everlost did so I finished the trilogy first then I decided to finish this. I binged-read that trilogy and started this but I found my focus still not in this book. Maybe if I was in a different mood, I might have enjoyed this. Maybe.

MY RATING